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Hi Marcus It's Friday · You're home in Tulsa · Renee is in the kitchen
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The Marcus Family
Tulsa · Phase 1 Cohort
Renee Marcus · Primary caregiver
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Today · Friday, May 15

Who's with Marcus, what's next, and how he's doing — all in one place.

Who's with Marcus right now
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Renee

On shift now · until 6:00 PM
Next · 6 – 9 PM Catherine (daughter, dropping off dinner)
Overnight Dre · AI Concierge on standby

Handoff note for Catherine From Renee

Marcus had a calm morning. Lunch at noon (turkey sandwich, half eaten). Watch for restlessness around 4 — that's when he usually asks about Lewis. Dre's "where is Lewis" video is queued and ready. Sertraline + Prazosin given at 10. Next dose 10 PM.

Updated 47 min ago · Open full handoff doc →

Today's moment with Dre

Idle · last 38 min

This morning Dre helped Marcus remember Lewis's name when he asked about "the boy at college." Marcus smiled and said "that's right, my boy."

See this week's wins →
GREEN DAY
Steady morning. Marcus woke at 6:40 AM, recognized Renee, ate a full breakfast, asked about Lewis. No overnight agitation. Pain 3/10 lower back.
Logged by Renee · 47 min ago

Reminders for today

3 left
10:00 AMMedication

Sertraline 100mg + Prazosin 3mg with water and toast

2:30 PMVA Telehealth

Dr. Hampton — quarterly PTSD check-in (Zoom link in calendar)

7:00 PMWind-down

Trigger Dre's "bedtime" video. Renee, take the 10 minutes for yourself.

📋 Doctor Packet

This week's auto-generated summary is ready. 4 medications across 3 providers. One change flagged: Dr. Hampton increased Prazosin Tuesday.

Tap to preview → next visit May 22

Family activity

3 family members checked in this morning
Lewis (son)8:14 AM · OU campus

Saw today's update before class. Sending Dad a voice memo this afternoon.

Tasha (sister)7:38 AM · Houston

Glad it's a green day. Renee, dinner's covered Sunday — DoorDashing the Pho place y'all love.

Janice · H&V6:55 AM

Monthly doctor packet will auto-generate Friday night. I'll review before it ships.

This week's caregiver logs

Renee logs once a day — the family sees a clean weekly summary.

May 11 – 15

Pattern: stable week
Thu · May 14GREEN

Marcus slept 7 hours. Recognized Renee and the dog. Ate three meals. Cried briefly when "Amazing Grace" came on in the car — said he was thinking about his unit.

Wed · May 13YELLOW

Restless night — woke at 2am thinking he was on duty. Renee played Dre's "you're home" video. Marcus calmed in under three minutes. Slept until 6.

Tue · May 12GREEN

Good day. Helped Renee in the garden. Said "I'm tired but I'm here." That's a Marcus sentence — first time in a week.

Mon · May 11GREEN

Pharmacy refill done. Sertraline + Prazosin restocked. Marcus asked twice for Lewis but settled when Renee showed Lewis's text photo from OU.

From Marcus · via Dre

Moments Marcus shared with Dre — things he might not say to anyone else.

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"Tell Lewis I'm proud. He doesn't know it but I'm proud."
Wed · May 13 · 11:42 AM · after Dre's "family check-in" prompt
😔
"I don't always know where I am. But when I hear Renee laughing in the kitchen, that's home."
Tue · May 12 · 6:18 PM · unprompted, after dinner
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"Play that song my mama used to sing. The one about the river."
Sun · May 10 · 9:04 AM · Dre played "Down to the River to Pray"
🙏
"Psalm 23. Read me that one. Slow."
Sat · May 9 · 10:30 PM · Dre read NLT version twice
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"I don't want Tasha to remember me like this."
Thu · May 7 · 2:15 PM · flagged for Janice's review · privacy preserved from sister

Family rotation · This week

Who's with Marcus, who's covering Renee, what's planned.

Mon
11
Renee
Tue
12
Renee
Wed
13
Renee + Pastor Mike
Thu
14
Renee + Aunt Bea (relief 1-4pm)
Fri
15
Renee · today
Sat
16
Lewis home from OU
Sun
17
Whole family · Tasha visiting

Renee's break window

Thursday 1-4pm with Aunt Bea covering. Use it. Janice flagged: Renee hasn't logged a real break in 12 days.

Lewis's visit prep

Janice will send Lewis a 1-page "what to expect this weekend" brief by Friday evening. Includes Marcus's good-time windows and the three things that comfort him.

Dre · Marcus's AI Concierge

A mid-50s peer-vet who speaks Marcus's language. Pre-recorded videos and voice clips, ready when Renee needs them.

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Dre · v2.3

Voice tuned by Janice · last update May 1

What Dre knows about Marcus

  • ★ Served 2003-2011 · Iraq deployments · 82nd Airborne
  • ★ Calls Renee "Babygirl" when he's calm
  • ★ Triggers: helicopters overhead, fireworks, raised voices in unfamiliar rooms
  • ★ Comforts: gospel music, Psalm 23, his late mother's voice (recorded)
  • ★ Pride: his son Lewis at OU on a partial scholarship
  • ★ Faith register: AME tradition, NLT translation, no "thee/thou" King James

Doctor packet · Monthly

Auto-generated from this month's logs. Janice reviews before it goes to Dr. Hampton's office.

May 2026 · Marcus Daniels · VA File #*****4821

Prepared for Dr. Hampton · VA Telehealth · 30-day summary
  • Sleep pattern: 7 GREEN nights, 4 YELLOW (avg. 6.2 hours), 0 RED
  • Medication adherence: 100% on Sertraline; 96% on Prazosin (2 missed doses, logged)
  • Mood — caregiver-observed: stable, three brief episodes of grief response to music
  • Triggers logged: 2 (helicopter overhead 5/8, kitchen smoke alarm 5/12)
  • Cognitive: pronoun confusion 3x; name recall stable; oriented to place 100%
  • Caregiver wellbeing: Renee — 12 days without a 4+ hour break (action item)
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Handoff document

If Renee is unavailable, anyone reading this should be able to step in for a day.

Morning routine
Wake naturally between 6:30-7:00. Black coffee with one sugar before any conversation. Don't open blinds until he's vertical — light overstimulates first thing.
Calm sounds
Sam Cooke, the Caravans, Mahalia Jackson. NOT the radio — too unpredictable.
If he asks for Renee
Don't lie. "Renee stepped out to rest — she'll be back by [time]." Then play Dre's "where is Renee" video.
If he panics
1) Lower your voice. 2) Sit at his eye level. 3) Play Dre's "I'm scared" video. 4) Ask him to name three things he sees.
Pastor Mike Walker
918-555-0142 · drops by Wednesdays · always welcome unannounced
Emergency
VA Crisis Line 988 (press 1) · Dr. Hampton's after-hours: 918-555-0902
Succession plan
If Marcus declines further: Tasha (Renee's sister) is named secondary caregiver. Lewis informed but protected from logistics. Full plan reviewed quarterly with Janice.

SSDI workstream

Marcus's Social Security Disability Insurance claim — where it stands.

Status
Reconsideration filed Initial claim denied 2026-02-14. Reconsideration submitted 2026-03-22.
Disability attorney
Martha Reyes · Tulsa Veterans Legal Aid · martha@tvla.org · contingency 25% of back pay
Next action
Hearing prep — Janice drafting Renee's witness statement by May 22. Marcus's narrative is his to write (with Martha).
Records gathered
VA medical records (complete), Dr. Hampton's PTSD evaluations (2024-2026), 18 caregiver-log months exported
Open question
Whether to request consultative examination — Martha advises waiting for ALJ ruling first

Family settings

Who can see what — privacy is the point.

Renee (admin)
All access · receives daily summary email at 8pm
Lewis (son)
Today + This week + From Marcus (filtered) + Family rotation
Tasha (sister)
Today + Family rotation only · no medical or financial
Pastor Mike
Family rotation only · for visit timing
Dr. Hampton
Monthly packet email · no portal access
Janice · H&V
Admin access for tuning · sees what Renee sees · audit-logged
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Co-Founder, BHD Collective. 100% T&P Disabled Air Force Veteran. Built this because I lived it.
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